You don’t need to be an obnoxious braggart to get ahead. In fact, you might be better off cultivating a little humility. Don’t be a jerk. Read More...

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We all hope to successful in life. There’s nothing wrong with that.

However, your success can be problematic if you’re arrogant about it.

Remember: even though you might be the hardest working person you know, chances are that someone has helped you along the way.

It helps to cultivate humility in your life. You’ll be a better person for it, and the people around you will be grateful as well.

Concepts

  • Reasons for a lack of humility in today’s culture.
  • Why humility is an important characteristic to develop.
  • The importance of acknowledging your own weaknesses.
  • Relationship between humility and gratitude.
  • Is it possible to be humble while still being engaged in personal branding?
  • Strategies for building your brand without being obnoxious.
  • Leadership strategies that are compatible with being humble.
  • The relationship between confidence and humility.
  • How to avoid falling into the trap of humble bragging.

This week’s “do nows” focus on ways you can cultivate gratitude in your life in order to avoid the pitfalls of arrogance. We include ideas for being grateful, as well as helping others. Our listener question addresses how it’s possible to grow your business without being a complete jerk.

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Developing humility as a leader
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Humility and the workplace
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Thinking about what it would take to change your career? Expert Alison Cardy shares her story and coaches you through a career shift. Read More...

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Alison Cardy from Cardy Career Coaching joins Harlan and Miranda. In this episode of Adulting.tv LIVE!, we will talk about preparing for a career change and successfully following through.

Alison Cardy is a career coach who runs an international career coaching team specializing in guiding people through career changes. Her team’s work focuses on that crucial step before job searching: helping you figure out what it is you actually want to be doing with your life. She and her team have guided hundreds of people, in every industry imaginable, to innovative and functional career solutions.

Alison is the author of the 5-star rated bestseller, Career Grease: How to Get Unstuck and Pivot Your Career. Her work has been featured on Monster, Forbes, The Muse, Undercover Recruiter, and The Washington Post.

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Every year you have to wade through health insurance plans. It’s such a PITA. We’ve got your guide to figuring it out. Read More...

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Choosing health insurance is a huge PITA. You know it. We know it. Everyone knows it.

Unfortunately, it has to be done.

In this episode, we talk about the realities of the health care system, and we discuss what you need to know when navigating your choices. It’s never pretty, but you can make the best of the situation.

Concepts

  • An overview of the health care and insurance system.
  • Reasons that choosing health coverage is so difficult.
  • What you need to know about costs and health care coverage.
  • The ACA and your health care choices.
  • Tips for figuring out what coverage you need.
  • Strategies for evaluating your health insurance options.
  • Understanding health insurance alphabet soup: HMO, HSA, PPO, EPO.
  • When a high-deductible plan might make sense (and when to avoid it).
  • Ideas for reducing health care costs.

Pay attention to our “do nows” so that you can start mapping out your next steps for getting the right health insurance, including understanding how provider networks work. Our listener question deals with your options for affordable health insurance.

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Difficulties of choosing health insurance
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Here’s the best way to handle children involved with extracurricular activities. Juggle much? Read More...

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In this episode, Adulting.tv welcomes Matt Schulz, the founder of SocceredUp.com. Matt joins Harlan and Miranda to talk about being a parent of a child or children who are engaged in extracurricular activities, including sports. We discuss everything that goes into being a great sports mom or dad.

SocceredUp.com is a site devoted to helping new fans know the game better and love it more by teaching about not just the rules but also about the people, places and things that make the game great.

In his day job, he is a nationally recognized personal finance expert. As Senior Industry Analyst at CreditCards.com, he has appeared on The Today Show, CBS Evening News, CNBC and hundreds of TV and radio stations around the nation, as well as being quoted by major publications such as The Wall Street Journal, New York Times and USA Today.

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Introducing the first book from the Adulting.tv team: The Best Bank Accounts for Adults: That Moment You Need to Put It Somewhere Other Than Your Mattress.

This book gives you a head start on making the most of your financial life with tricks and tips for finding the right bank account for you. The book is updated on a monthly basis with the latest information that’s will help you succeed right away.

For a limited time, the digital edition of the book is available for FREE.

Why do you need this book?

Checking and savings accounts are the building blocks of your financial success. The earlier, a person opens a bank account in their life, the more likely he or she will advance forward and improve his or her station in life. You cannot move from poverty to middle class without making the right financial choices. You can’t move to the upper class without bank accounts and investments.

Not only that, but if you make BAD choices with managing your money, there is a better chance you will lose it. The Best Bank Accounts for Adults provides the context you need for opening the right savings and checking accounts, and also highlights the best options available for you.

Who are the authors?

Harlan and Miranda have three decades combined in experience watching and writing about the financial industry. Their advice has been trusted by millions. Harlan created the first personal finance blog through which he recommended the best financial products. He also founded the Plutus Awards, which highlights more financial products based on the survey of some of the best writers in the financial media.

Miranda has been a freelance writer for over a decade, focusing on personal finance. Her advice has appeared in the Huffington Post, Seeking Alpha, Banks.com, and H&R Block. She is also the author of Confessions of a Personal Finance Blogger.

What do I get?

You will receive, for FREE, ALL new editions of The Best Bank Accounts for Adults. I LOVE giving stuff away. I think just about EVERYTHING on the internet should be free. But in order to keep doing what we’re doing, we will be selling the books we write. For NOW, though, and for limited times here and there, we will offer most, if not all, of it for FREE.

The financial industry is always changing. Future editions of this book will have additional guides, up-to-date interest rate information, and MORE! But future editions will NOT be free. Download the digital copy TODAY.

ALSO, you’ll receive a free weekly(ish) newsletter that helps you in ALL aspects of your life: money, career, and relationships! You can cancel at any time. (But WHY would you want to?)

Just complete the form and check the option to download the FREE eBook.

 

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Do you have to start a side hustle to achieve financial independence? Here’s a practical look at the realities of starting a side gig. Read More...

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According to CareerBuilder, 29% of workers have side hustles. Chances are, if you spend any time online trying to figure out how to make more money, you have heard of a side hustle.

Indeed, a side hustle can be a way to earn a little extra cash. But it’s not the magical cure that many hucksters claim. Before you jump into someone else’s idea of what it means to make money, remember that “hustle” means “scam.”

You can do well with a side gig, but you need to be careful about how you proceed.

Concepts

  • Why are side hustles so popular, anyway?
  • How technology makes it easier than ever to make money with a side hustle.
  • Examination of how a side hustle can migrate into a lifestyle business.
  • Difference between a side hustle and a hobby.
  • A look at the history of side gigs and how they’ve changed over the years.
  • Downsides of a side hustle.
  • Understanding the impact a side gig can have on your life.
  • How to know when it’s time to give up on your side gig.

Use our “do nows” tips on figuring out if a side job makes sense for you. We also have ideas for helping you figure out exactly how which side hustles make the most sense for you. Our latest listener question addresses how to get a S.O. involved with your gig.

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Millennials and side gigs
Income and the “American Dream”
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How well do you resolve differences in your relationship? Talaat and Tai McNeely share their story of conflict and resolution and offer great relationship advice about communication. Read More...

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Harlan L. Landes and Miranda Marquit welcome Tai and Talaat McNeely. The guests open up about their struggle with communication about finances early in their relationship, and how they overcame obstacles as a couple. Their story is inspiring, and the guests are candid in their sharing of their mistakes as well as the lessons they’ve learned.

Communication is the most important piece of any relationship, and in this episode, our guests share the tools that have helped them — and others they’ve coached — survive and thrive within a relationship.

This episode is essential watching for anyone in a relationship, and the tools and tips are effective for resolving more than differences about just money.

Talaat and Tai McNeely, “America’s #1 Money Couple,” are financial educators that are on a mission to get individuals and couples on the same page financially, and to experience the joys of financial freedom. They are co-authors of Money Talks: The Ultimate Couple’s Guide To Communicating About Money. They are also the hosts of the top rated podcast, The His and Her Money Show. Talaat and Tai McNeely (His and Her Money) have been featured in numerous publications such as T.D. Jakes Show, FoxNews.com, MSN.com, Essence, and Business Insider.

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Tired of all the fees, just like I am? I hate opening my statement and seeing some new fee I wasn’t expecting, and when it happens a lot, I don’t even want to open those statements at all. And that just leads to disaster. Getting a savings account without fees is one of the best goals to have, and is one of our 5 most important things to look for in a bank account.

You deserve a bank that WANTS you to be a customer. The banks need your money so they can operate, so why do they treat customers like they don’t want them? Your money, whatever you may have, is a PRIVILEGE to the bank! They should PAY YOU!

And with savings accounts, the banks DO pay you — in the form of interest. And interest is the most important factor for building your financial future. If you want to retire, if you want FREEDOM, it all starts with interest.

Some banks are really stingy. Major national banks pay out the lowest interest rates, and there’s no sign of that getting any better. The recession was YEARS ago but even the best banks are still paying about 1% interest. With 1% interest, it’ll take some time to build your future, but it’s better than nothing.

Here are the top savings accounts we recommend.

5 Things to Look for in a Savings Account

1. The Best Interest Rates. The key to making the most of your savings account is to find an account with one of the best interest rates. Compounding interest is one of the strongest and most important forces in the world of money. Putting money into your interest-earning savings account today, and putting more money in every week, month, or even year, is going to have a profound effect on your balance. Look for the bank with the highest interest rate that also meets the other criteria.

2. No Fees. What’s the point of earning interest if you just have to pay it back to the bank in the form of fees? Monthly service fees, debit card access fees, and ATM fees are together a terrible nuisance and will drag you down. Thankfully, they’re very easy to avoid! When you walk into your local bank and ask to sign up for a savings account, chances are good they’re going to offer you one with fees. Don’t go that route. Look at the vetted and reviewed accounts below to avoid unnecessary fees.

3. Excellent Customer Service. Look at the bank’s Twitter feed. This is a good indication of how they deal with customers. When someone complains, how do they reply? Look at reviews where real people explain what it’s like to be a customer. Again, we’ve done the research for you and only recommend the companies with the best customer service track records. With most savings accounts, you’ll hardly deal with any humans — everything is done online. But when you do, you want to make sure you’re headed for a positive experience.

4. Online Access. It’s no longer just enough to have a website. Yes, today’s banks should have a great website where you can go to transfer money, check your balances, and see how much interest you’re earning. The bottom line is that the website must be easy to navigate and you should be able to take care of all the business you need to do with a savings account. Some banks have apps for their accounts, but even if they don’t, they should be able to work with other money management apps like Mint.

5. Company Stability. While your money is protected by insurance by the federal government if your bank were to go out of business, you want to be confident that the bank is stable. Some of the biggest and most well-known banks use their huge brand recognition to justify not needing to offer the best interest rates and terms. But if a bank is offering a great interest rate, make sure it’s a company you can trust. Again, we trust all the banks whose savings accounts we recommend to be stable for the long term.

We’ve used these criteria to evaluate dozens of the top savings accounts, and we along with the money experts at GoBankingRates like these. They are offering interest rates HIGHER than 1% today. Deposit today and you could earn $250,000 (OR MORE!) over the course of your life than if you leave your money in a low-paying account from a bank that doesn’t want you.

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Can’t we all just get along? Unfortunately, with family, this isn’t always what happens. Here’s what you need to know about managing conflicts with family. Read More...

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The holiday season just ended. How did you survive?

Many families dread the holidays because of family disagreements. These past holidays might have been especially trying, thanks to the election.

And, even though you’ve navigated the holidays, there’s a good chance you still need to see family members at a major gathering. Sunday dinner? Grandma’s 80th birthday party? A family reunion in the summer?

At some point you’re going to have more conflicts with family. This episode will help you get through it.

Concepts

  • How emotion and identity impact the way we talk about difficult subjects.
  • The difficulty of seeing family when you spend more time with friends who might agree with you more.
  • Concerns about how “being right” and a “team” mentality can make it hard to talk about thorny issues.
  • Tips for setting the stage for civil and polite conversation rather than conflicts with family.
  • Ideas for defusing a difficult “conflicts with family” situation when it arises.
  • The importance of avoiding big discussions on social media.
  • The reality of our interconnected world and how it contributes to conflicts with family.

Listen to our “do nows” for ideas on what you can do to take action to avoid or help defuse conflicts with family. We also answer a listener question about religious tensions in family settings.

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Don’t let politics spoil your family holiday
Families dread holidays after election
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Should you delay having kids until you can afford it? How do you know when the time is right? Read More...

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If you’re young, you are more likely to wait longer to take on typical adult responsibilities than previous generations. Having children is one aspect of life that is being put off. Is the delay due to more uncertain finances? Should you wait until you feel you can afford to raise children before having them?

Sandy Smith joins Adulting.tv LIVE! for this discussion. Sandy created her blog, “Yes, I Am Cheap,” to help her climb out of $120,000 of debt. She has also created a 30-day challenge, #HustleCrew, to help you start your side hustle.

Related: Why don’t you have kids already?

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