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The Worst Things to Say to Someone In Grief
Someone you care about is hurting and you want to help. Before you open your mouth, let's take a look at what's really helpful and what's not.
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Original articles and conversations about loving.
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How to Divorce Like an Adult
Divorce doesn't have to be a drama-filled ordeal, even if you feel like your heart's been torn apart.
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So You've Been Ghosted: Here's How to Deal
Ghosting is the ultimate passive-aggressive avoidance behavior. Here's what to do when it happens to you.
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What to Do When You're the Kinky One in the Relationship
It's ok to get your freak on. Here's how to do it comfortably with your partner.
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How to Communicate When Your Partner's Love Language Sucks
We all speak different languages. Learn how to speak your SO's.
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No More Textual Relations: Develop Meaningful Connections
Take any relationship to the next level by ditching the device and communicating deeply instead.
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When Does Flirting Cross the Line Into Harassment?
Persistent, but innocent or completely inappropriate behavior? Here's how you can tell.
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[A104] Listen, Really Listen: Grow Your Emotional Intelligence to Make Better Decisions
Forget IQ. What you really want is better emotional intelligence.
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Making New Friends: How to Find Your Squad
What happened to all your BFFs from high school and college? Chances are you need a new crew. Here's what you need to know about making new friends.
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Why It Doesn't Suck to Be Single During the Holidays
Does being single = lonely, especially around the holidays? Not. Even. Close.
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[A100] Tongue-Tied No More: Approach That Hottie Over There
Take a deep breath. And go for it.
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How to Turn Your Friendship into the Relationship of a Lifetime
Once in a while, people escape the friend zone. When you get an out, here's how to make it count.
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Show Love to Your S.O. Without Buying a Gift
Skip the gift. Show your love with meaningful gestures.
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How to Make Your Office Romance Work
An office fling can be fun, but what if you want it to last? In order for things to work out, here are some things you'll need to consider.
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When Your Friend Is On a Different Path
A friendship not fitting quite as snuggly as it used to? You don't have to give up on it. Here's how to work through the changes.
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[A095] Insecurity Breach: Tackle Trust Issues With Your Partner
Don't let your trust issues get in the way of your relationship.
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[B041] Be a Kickass Single Mom ft. Emma Johnson from Wealthy Single Money
Being a single mom doesn't have to be depressing. Here's how to love it.
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9 (and a Half) Signs Your Relationship Is Over
Bad news. Your relationship is probably already over. You just don't realize it yet.
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[B040] When Tinder Gives You Sriracha Steve and Butt Boy ft. Gwen, Fiery Millennials
There are joys and horrors -- but mostly horrors -- of Tinder dating. Maybe it can be better.
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[A091] Love It Up: Romance the Ish out of Your Partner
Take your romance skills to the next level.
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What To Do When You Run Into Your Ex After a Relationship
Running into an ex sucks, but often it can't be avoided. Even though everything isn't in your control, there's some prep work you can do to handle it well.
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TFW When You Want to Say No To a Date
While fun, dating isn't just about playing around. Life's too short to entertain situations that aren't right for you. Say what you mean so you can find who you're looking for.
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[B036] When Moving Home Isn't Failure to Launch, ft. Connie Albers
Moving home can be a good way to get your feet under you. Just make sure you move home like a grown-ass adult.
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How to Have a Fun Date When You're Broke AF
No cash? No problem! Fun and romance can happen without spending your whole paycheck, and may even be better for it.
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When Your Partner Wants Kids But You Don't
One person wants kids, the other doesn't. It isn't hopeless but it will take some work to get through it. Here are your options.
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[B032] Have the Best Dating Life Ever While Raising a Family ft. Sarah Bettencourt
Single parenthood can be plenty of fun. Have the best dating life ever.
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[A083] Step Off: Establish Boundaries With Your Parents
You're an adult. Don't let your parents treat you like a kid.
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How to Decide If a Second Date Is Worth It
Intrigue leads to date number one. It should take more than that to get a second chance. Are there signs it'll be a waste of time?
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The Best Advice a 21-Year-Old Can Hear Right Now
From money to relationships and everything in between, here's the best advice from a panel of expert adults.
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5 Signs You're in Love With an Idea, Not a Person
Stop obsessing about the "perfect" relationship or partner. You want to find love with a person, not an idea.
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How to Make Friends in a New City
Feeling like a stranger in a strange land? It can be hard to start over in a new city. But part of the fun is making new connections and finding a new crew.
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Are You in a Situationship?
Are you in a sort-of relationship without wanting to commit? Not sure what to call it? You, my friend, are in a situationship.
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[B029] Everything You Learned About Sex in 7th Grade Is Wrong, ft. Bez Stone
Do you think sex has become a chore? It doesn't have to be that way. Spice up your love life by learning how to have sex your way.
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[A079] Just a Friend: Connect With the Opposite Sex
Don't believe the hype. You really can be friends with members of the opposite sex. You just need to see other people as, you know, people.
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4 Tips for Developing Good Relationships
Want to keep it tight with your crew? It takes effort. But it's totally worth it.
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How to Date an Alpha Female
Independence. Fire. Ambition. An alpha female sounds great. If you want to keep it great long-term, follow these tips.
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Why Working With Your Life Partner is Lit
Looking for more quality time with your S.O.? Start a business together. Just make sure you're really cut out for a shared business.
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[A075] The Formula for Awkward: Mix Business and Pleasure
Don't assume that working with your life partner is all sunshine and rainbows. It's not for everyone, so make sure it's right for you before you get too far in.
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8 Ways You’re Sabotaging Your Relationship -- And How to Stop
Oops. There goes another failed relationship. It doesn't have to be this way. Get out of your rut and take your next relationship to the next level.
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Help Your Parents See the Potential in Bae
Whether you plan a long relationship or a short partnership, you want your family to approve of bae. Get your family on board.
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[A071] Get It: Make a Killer Impression on the First Date
Looking for love, sex, or intimacy? It all starts with a first date. Don't screw this up.
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8 Quirky Ways to Know When to Commit to Your S.O.
Sometimes those LTRs sneak up on you. Here's how to tell it's time to stop wasting everyone's time and just commit to your S.O.
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How to Remain Close to Friends as Life Gets in the Way
Liking your BFF's post on Facebook isn't the same thing as sitting down and talking to them. Get out there and connect with the people in your life.
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Establish Boundaries: Get Your Parents to Back the Eff Off
You're a grown-ass adult. So why do your parents treat you like you're still a kid? You need to set some boundaries ASAP.
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[A067] Don't Freak: Talk Money With Boo or Bae
Ready to take things to the next level with your S.O.? Not until you have the money talk. You need to make this happen.
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5 Tips for Solving Communication Problems With Your S.O.
Fighting with your S.O. and constantly exchanging verbal barbs is a quick way to a short, unhappy relationship. Get beyond that.
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Save Your Relationship: 4 Reasons to Stop Talking Crap About Your S.O.
Don't sabotage your relationship with trash talk about your S.O. No matter how tempted you are to rag on your partner, keep it to yourself.
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How to Tell a Persistent Lover You're Not Interested in a Long-Term Relationship
Not excited about a long-term relationship with your partner? Up your breakup game.
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Why You Need to Be a Parent and Not Your Kid's Best Friend
You either gave your child some genetic material or chose to adopt. That means you're a parent. Time to act like it.
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[A063] When You're a People Pleaser: Say No to Those You Love
It's hard to say no, but sometimes you have to for reasons. You're still a good person.
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Traveling With Your S.O.: <br />11 Things You Need to Know
Traveling with your S.O. probably seems like a dream, but it's not always what it's cracked up to be. Do this so you don't regret your shared vacation.
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What to Do When You Hate Your Friend's Politics
Your friend's politics are getting on your nerves. You need to figure out how to fix this without destroying the friendship.
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9 Things You Must Do to Coparent Successfully With Your Ex
Parenting is one of the hardest jobs around. It's not any easier with your ex. But your kids will be better off if you can suck it up and coparent effectively.
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[A059] Single and Hating It: Get Comfortable With Solo Life
Tired of feeling lonely and left out as everyone around you finds true happiness with a partner? It doesn't have to be this way. Embrace solo life.
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5 Tips for Disagreeing with Your Parents
Disagreeing with your parents is just fine. Do it in a way that doesn't make them see you as a perpetual child.
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Adulting for Your Parents: 5 Topics You Must Cover
It's hard to need to take care of your parents. But sometimes it's necessary.
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[B013] How Couples Resolve Differences ft. Tai and Talaat McNelly, His and Her Money
How well do you resolve differences in your relationship? Talaat and Tai McNeely share their story of conflict and resolution and offer great relationship advice about communication.
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[A055] Just Can't With Them: Survive Conflicts With Family
Can't we all just get along? Unfortunately, with family, this isn't always what happens. Here's what you need to know about managing conflicts with family.
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How to Fight Fair With Your Significant Other
We all have arguments with the people we love. But that doesn't mean it's ok to fight dirty. It's much better if you fight fair.
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5 Signs You're Not Ready For a Serious Relationship
Don't get in a serious relationship just because everyone tells you that you "should." Do a little self-exploration first.
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[A051] You Up? Find a Date and Make It a Good One
Can't find a date? You're probably not looking hard enough. Stop being so picky, say yes a little more, and see what's out there. It's just a date.
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Do You Love Being Single? 3 Reasons That's Not a Problem
Don't try to convince me that being single is something I need to "fix." I'm single right now -- and loving it.
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[A009 Rebroadcast] Holiday Hijinks: Accept That You're Not a Kid Anymore
The holidays are different for adults than they are for kids. You can still have a great season, but cut the holiday hijinks.
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[A010 Rebroadcast] Holiday Showdown: Satisfy Your Relatives or Die Trying
Once you start learning to adult, holidays can be a time of stress. Here's how to set healthy boundaries.
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6 Things You Must Never Say to a Bride
You've got an opinion about your friend's wedding? Keep it to yourself.
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Why I Like Having Fun Without My Husband
A healthy relationship isn't about being together all the time. In fact, your marriage could probably benefit from quality alone time.
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How Do You Know You're Ready to Date Again?
Dating can be exhausting, especially if you aren't ready. Don't jump back into the pool out of desperation.
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[A047] Long-Distance Relationships: Keep Them Fire
Long-distance relationships suck. Or do they? You might be surprised to find out how great they can be.
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When You Hate Your Friends on Facebook
Do you love someone IRL, but can't stand them on Facebook? Here's how you can deal with the friends you hate on Facebook.
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Can You Really Be Friends With Benefits?
The dream of FWB is alive and well. But does this no-strings-attached thing really work? It can, but not without a few ground rules.
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How to Handle Breakup on Social Media
It's the end of an era. Now you have to decide how to respond on social media.
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[A043] The (No) One: Build Your Soulmate From Scratch
The bad news about finding The One? Probably doesn't exist. The good news about soulmates? You probably have more than you think.
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No, I Won't Be Your Dominatrix
Even though I received my share of horrifying messages, overall I enjoyed my experience on OK Cupid. Check it out to see if it might work for you.
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Why You Should Swear Off Dating After a Long-Term Relationship Ends
Just because you're thirsty, it doesn't mean it's a good idea to jump into dating at the end of a long-term relationship.
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[B007] When Is the Right Time to Move In Together? ft. Debt Free Guys
This could be a big step in any relationship.
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When Your Boo Wants to Combine the Finances
How much do you trust your S.O.? Do you trust him or her with ALL of your money?
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Adulting, Doggy Style
Why do I like dogs more than humans? Because they know how to live and love.
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5 Questions to Ask Before You Tie the Knot
Basing a marriage on dating bliss is a bad idea. Before you commit to marriage, you need to have these uncomfortable conversations.
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[A036] Get Busy: Start a Family Today
Are you ready to care for another human being? The right time is different for everyone.
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[A032] Yes, Yes, Yes: Don't Do It Without It
Why do we struggle so much with the idea of consent?
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Planning Your Wedding: How to Compromise With Your Partner
Encourage your partner's inner groomzilla.
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Figuring Out When to Move In Together
How do you know it's time to move in together? Hint: It's not because you want to save money.
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How to Learn to Love Being Alone
Afraid to be by yourself? Embrace it! Being alone does not mean being lonely.
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Adults Can Be Bullies, Too. Here's How to Deal.
Thought everyone left immaturity in grade school like you? No, some people are bullies even as "adults." Overcome it.
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How to Discuss What's Important With Your S.O.
It's time to dive deep. Can you have a major discussion without major drama?
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Why Don't You Have Kids Already?
Recently married? Here's something you're probably tired of hearing.
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That Moment When You Lend Money to Friends and Family
If you MUST lend money to friends and family, try to keep these 7 essential tips in mind.
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Thirsty Much? 5 Signs Your Next Relationship Will Crash and Burn
Just started a new relationship? Here's how to tell if it's already over.
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[A026] Bye, Felicia: Overcome Separation Anxiety and Let It Go
Letting go doesn't have to be the end of the world.
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Survive Your Long-Distance Relationship
Can you survive a long-distance relationship? It can be difficult but rewarding, especially if you follow these tips to strengthen it.
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[A024] Drama Queen: Rise Above Petty
Avoid unnecessary drama in your life. The distractions can be harmful to your health.
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The Right Time for Adults to Have Sex
How do you know when it's the right time for sex, especially with a new partner?
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[A021] Relationship Goals: Ditch Toxic Behaviors and People
Life is too short to be unhappy in a toxic relationship.
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20 Traits That Prove Your Relationship Is On Point
You know your relationship is on point if these 20 traits describe you. If not, at least you'll know what to do.
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[A017] Be Present: Throw Your Phone Into the Pool
Step away from the phone. Engage with your fellow humans.
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This Partner Will Never Return Your Loving Gaze
You spend more time with your eyes on your phone than on the people you love. Save your relationships for living creatures.
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[A012] Love Yo Self: Find Comfort in Your Fortress of Solitude
Being alone doesn't mean you have to be lonely. Learn to love yourself.
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[A010] Holiday Showdown: Satisfy Your Relatives or Die Trying
Once you start learning to adult, holidays can be a time of stress. Here's how to set healthy boundaries.
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[A009] Holiday Hijinks: Accept That You're Not a Kid Anymore
The holidays are different for adults than they are for kids. You can still have a great season, but cut the holiday hijinks.
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[A004] Status Update: OMG, Stop the Vaguebooking
Social media isn't just harmless fun. It's how people -- from employers to potential partners -- judge the type of person you are.
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[A001] People: You Need Them. Deal With Them.
People are an everyday reality. As much as you'd like to be a hermit sometimes, that's not how it works.
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